The 'Stay at Home' mine field

I have been a working parent, and am now a stay at home parent.  I am fortunate that I can do this and I enjoy it.  I like spending the time with my kids and having a well run house, and I like not feeling like I am juggling all the time without really keeping anyone happy, which was how I felt when working.  However what I don't like is all the attitude and angst that comes from others regarding my choice.  The frequently asked question about when I will go back to work.  (I am working, I just don't get paid).  The implication that I must be bored.  (I am not bored, my household and parenting responsibilities alone keep me busy, but I also do volunteer work for my community.  So NOT bored.)  And then there is the conversation killed moment: "So what do you do"  "I'm a stay at home parent", followed by the questioner looking alarmed and desperately trying to find someone else to talk to.  Ok so lets aim for utopia: I won't ask working parents when they plan to stop work, and they can stop asking me when I plan to start!  I AM doing something worthwhile, I'm not judging those who choose to work, because that is cool too, but just ask them not to put a negative spin on my choice.  Truce!!!!

The begining

This blog will be about a love of cake (slices in particular, chocolate especially) and some bits about the domestic arts.  It will be about asserting the value of being an at-home, home-running, domesticated parent.  It will at times be rather indulgent and self congratulatory, but perhaps also contain some helpful tips for those who like to be organised and efficient in the running of their homes.  It may also contain some high minded rants about the environment and healthy eating for kids.